The incident, shared by social
media user Princess Adeola, highlighted the emotional toll on the man and drew
attention to cultural practices that some argue may discourage potential
suitors.
The bride price list, meant to
honor the family, included numerous items such as crates of drinks, livestock,
clothing, and monetary gifts for various members of the bride’s extended
family. The total value was estimated at ₦3.5 million.
The prospective groom,
reportedly eager to marry and even committed to taking the bride abroad and
sponsoring her education, expressed heartbreak after realizing the bride
herself supported her family's demands, citing the rising costs of living in
Nigeria.
Adeola expressed sympathy for
the man, describing him as a "good man" who was willing to go to
great lengths for his partner. She criticized the bride's family for what she
termed "greed" and urged women to advocate for reasonable expectations
from their families.
Many online users joined the
discussion, debating the relevance and practicality of traditional marriage
customs in modern times. While some defended the practice as a cultural
heritage, others viewed it as a hindrance to relationships and an unnecessary
financial burden.
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