Exit Of An Icon: A Tribute To Chief Ezeogo Uma Nchege Nwoke

Once upon a time, a beautiful young woman grew weary of her marriage and harbored dark thoughts of ending her husband’s life. Overwhelmed by her frustrations, she sought the counsel of her mother one fateful morning.

"Mother, I am exhausted by my husband's behavior. I can no longer tolerate his nonsense. I want to kill him, but I am terrified the law will hold me accountable. Can you help me, please?" she implored.

Her mother, wise and composed, responded, "Yes, my daughter, I can help you. However, there are a few tasks you must complete first."

Eager and determined, the daughter asked, "What tasks? I am ready to do anything to rid myself of him."

"Very well," said the mother. "First, you must make peace with him so that no one will suspect you when he dies. Second, you must beautify yourself, ensuring you look young and attractive to him. Third, you must take good care of him, being exceptionally nice and appreciative. Fourth, you must be patient, loving, and less jealous, listen more, and be respectful and obedient. Fifth, spend your money on him and refrain from anger, even when he doesn't provide for you. Finally, never raise your voice against him; instead, promote peace and love to avoid suspicion."

The daughter, resolute, nodded. "Yes, I can do all of that."

"Good," said the mother. "Take this powder and sprinkle a bit into his meals daily. It will slowly kill him."

Thirty days later, the daughter returned to her mother, her demeanor transformed. "Mother, I no longer wish to kill my husband. Over this past month, I have grown to love him deeply because he has changed completely. He is now the sweetest husband I could ever imagine. How can I stop the poison from killing him? Please, help me," she pleaded, tears in her eyes.

The mother smiled gently. "Do not worry, my daughter. What I gave you was merely turmeric powder. It will never harm him. In truth, it was you who were the poison, slowly killing your husband with tension and dispassion. When you began to love, honor, and cherish him, you saw him transform into the kind and sweet husband he could be.

"Men are not inherently wicked. Our way of relating to them greatly influences their responses and feelings towards us. Women, if you can show respect, dedication, love, care, and commitment to your husbands, they will, in turn, be there for you wholeheartedly."

The daughter's eyes widened with understanding and gratitude. She realized that the change in her husband had been a reflection of the change in herself. Her mother's wisdom had not only saved her marriage but had also taught her a profound lesson about love and relationship dynamics.

From that day forward, the young woman embraced her marriage with renewed vigor, fostering an environment of mutual respect and affection. Her husband's continued kindness was a testament to the power of love and understanding, and they lived happily ever after, bound by the deep connection they had nurtured together.