Rosalind Umar, 73, who had both a failed and a successful marriage, has shared the factors that made all the difference.
The fitness enthusiast got
married for the first time at the age of 29. However, the marriage failed after
a short while.
She said the reason for the
failure of her first marriage was that they were not suited for each other.
"It wasn't because my
husband was a bad guy. We were temperamentally unsuited. But I wasn’t looking
at the bigger picture. I just wanted to get married," she explained.
In her 30s, she said she met
her current husband and she was hesitant because she did not want another
failed marriage.
However, she said she gave him
a chance and they have now been married for 42 years.
With her second husband, she
said things just flow.
She said: "From the get
go, I knew I'd met my right partner. I don't want a second marriage that will
not succeed. And today, I proudly say we've spent 42 years.
"If my first husband and
my present husband sits and compare notes, they will feel they are describing
day and night.
On what made all the difference
in her second marriage, she said: "When you meet the right person,
everything just flows... Where you have fissures, cracks in the relationship,
because you will have crack, but what you think of immediately is how to mend
those cracks. You always think of patching up the rough edges.
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